This is going to be hard.

Wife asked today, when we first made love, why did it happen, didn't I, a man, get turned on by her, being a woman.

I said no. She then jumped in and asked why it happened then.

The only thing I could say was I was attracted to her, I didn't think anything about being male, that didn't come in to it. It was me being attracted to her. That led on to me being male at that time and...

It's getting harder, she has an idea, but won't budge. She asks questions but doesn't listen to the answer..